Java....we have a problem

It seems that Java updates more than I go to the bathroom.  It's an endless array of updates and an endless attempt to install the Ask Toolbar.  I'm just wondering if I am alone with being sick of it.  If you are going to update so much, please stop hoisting toolbars on us.  That would be the fair way to deal with all of us since you insist on updating every commercial break.  What can you do?  Not much for now.